yes abi, we consider ourselves family because we share our interests, our experiences, our knowledge on this forum. and yes some of us have formed good friend relationships here but it isn't from being secretive about anything. we write on the forum. if you want to meet someone on the forum answer their questions. be active here not secretive. lord knows i am not short on words but i do it on the forum. the forum is our bond not the pm or your e-mail!!!!